Try going to a drumhead manufactures website and it will list somewhere what drummer from which band uses what. for example:
http://www.evansdrumheads.com/EVAArtists.aspx?ID=1 See? you can go down the list and see a drummer who's drums sound good to you. Both Remo and Aquarian have a simular feature too. Bear in mind though that this should only be used as a rough guide. Nothing beats your ears in terms of what you want to hear.