| "We're just saying you need to also reinforce what he is doing right so he keeps doing it. "
No disrespect but this is how i train my dogs. Most yell commands at them and growl when they error, i train so they are rewarded for good and ignored when bad. Speaking in nice tones gives a dog confidence, they are not deaf (in fact have exceptional hearing compared to a human). They don't like being ignored when you are their master, so soon learn to be good. You have to be consistent with this type of training, it pays off.
Something iv'e alway told my daughter, if you want something always give a reason why (because) and you will usually get it or at least an acknowledgement of your request.
This point is valid to what CD is saying. If you tell someone they have erred (they suck), at least give them a good description as to why and some direction to where they can improve. If you don't know yourself, you should not make comment in the first place.
I have admirble respect for the experienced guitarists and other musicians i have played with who over the years have at times helped me in this way and pointed me in a right direction.  |