[jhilldrums]

no no no no no, you have it wrong. I would not tell anyone they suck. My son and I have a light hearted way of doing this. I think the only criticism any of us can / should give is constructive.

Your misunderstanding my point. If what I was talking about was you playing lighter on the snare for the sake of making your accents sound more accented, yeah, right on. My son runs around the kit WAAAAAAAAAY off beat, not even close to doing anything right, yeah, it sucked.