[Bo Eder]

Do you have a good teacher to learn from?

Some people are where they're at, and that's all there is to it. If it takes you a little longer, that's OK. This isn't supposed to be a race. You play be cause you enjoy it, period. It sounds like your frustrations are stemming from not being where you want to be, but you haven't been playing that long.

I've been playing for over 30 years now and there's still stuff I can't do (or I have to come up with another way of doing it). But I would really recommend finding a good private teacher if you don't already have one. Things happen alot quicker that way in the beginning. Don't give up!