| Givemethebeat, I guess we'll have to agree to dissagree, I just think telling someone they suck falls outside the realm of constructive criticism (especially when dealing with a beginner or young person). Where telling someone what they need to work on and how to get better is within the realm of constructive criticism. When someone tells me that I suck at anything it rarely inspires me to work harder, or get better. It normally leads me to discount the source. If someone where to come up and give me a specific area they thought I needed to work on I would take their comments and advice more seriously. |