thanks for all the help. I have thought it over and think i made a decision. After reasearching everything i could find i have decided to belly up and jump right into the fire. I found
Sabian HHX evolution performance pack with 14 hats 16 crash 20 ride and 18 ozone for $599. Seems like this is a good deal so im gonna go with it and here are my reasons.
I know i have never been a drummer but do belive in having good equipment for any hobby i try. I am 28 and really want to stick with it and feel that buying a $200 or $300 set and eventually wanting better is kinda wasting my money. I know i will enjoy playing so why not have good things. I got my drum set and hardware for like $570 brand new and shipped so the extra can roll into my cymbals which i wont outgrow unless i break them.
Is the $599 for that hhx evo pack a good deal? The closest i found was $699