For a progressive rock set I would definitely go with a
Tama or a PDP because they are nice quality sets that last a LOOONG time. (My PDP, which is also my first set, has lasted me for 7 years dude. Trust me!)
As far as tom sizes and **** go, whatever pleases your ear is fine. Just make sure your bass drum is BIG...like, 24" type big. BIG. Size matters! Ha jk. But seriously.
If you really want to make an intense prog. set, look at what other prog. drummers have their kits set up like...I personally think that's the best way to go. But remember, in the end, it's about how YOU want to set it up.