Hi Drummer 42,
As said by others there is quite some stuff about this allready on this forum, to which I also contributed.
I only want to add this: The ideal snare sound is not easy to achieve so why go and compromise that for the sake of a tom?
You will use the snare much more than the tom, and the buzz will only be iritating when you only play the tom.
When the drumkit is in full play you might not even be able to pick it up!
Most drummers know this "evil" and have decided (like me) to just live with it.
In a live gig situation it is absolutely not noticeable for the audience.
Cheers and Happy drumming
Harry