first off that Drum Tuning Bible looks very interesting!
I've used
Remo heads forever....the glue in the rim part always (or usually) cracks when you are seating the heads....what I do, I saw somewhere on the web somewhere (can't remember where :-)....tighten the head a little, push on it in the center (pretty hard) with the ball of your hand, you SHOULD hear some cracking, that's the glue cracking/seating, and that's OK it won't hurt anything...tighten some more....push down again...repeat as necessary....then tighten to your desired pitch...play your ass off
After the initial seating/tuning, I may have to fine tune a bit for the next couple gigs, but for the most part I have always had pretty good luck with em staying in tune....but, that may also be a
DW thing