Nail polish

, i have enough trouble explaining the jar of vaseline in my tool kit
I use a sharpie pen using a fine line to match up angles on the cymbal arm tilters, it is easy to remove from chrome. Also have used car pin stripe tape as well.
The cymbal arms i have memory locks fitted in the same places (comfort zone)so that they can be fitted to either left or right stands with out any adjustment. The floor tom legs and tom mounts i have used a piece of soft clear plastic tube which simply slides along the bar with a good push. No reason why this can't be done with larger dia cymbal arms, tom mounts etc, just need larger dia plastic tubing.
The lower legged part of the stands that unfold are memoried with a piece of gaffa. Bass drum spurs have a stop pin in them which is a standard feature of my
Tama kit.
Throne, snare height, hi hat and toms adjustments are permantly locked in place, i don't alter these settings as i have them just right.
The only thing that alters really is the cymbal angles as the gig dictates. I often change cymbals and sizes, why i use the sharpie for those.
Pack up is simply taking off the cymbal arms, and the rest of the stand goes complete into the stand/trap case complete with any add on attachments.