Hi SuperK;
Am I correct in guessing that you already have a drumset based on the picture on your site? If so, think about changing the bass drum batter head to a mesh head.
Pearl, for one mkes a wide selection at a reasonable price. They are
very easy to change, are silent, tunable, and have the same re-bound as your regular bass drum head. You can pound on it at 3:00AM and no body will know you are playing.