In this site below there are fairly easy to follow instructions for drum tuning and head replacement. It's up to you to ignore the ads within this website. I found this to be an excellent introduction for beginners. I pasted the website below for your convenience. After following these steps, you can then find that sound your trying to achieve.
Acoustic Drums - Tuning Acoustic Drums - LOGIZTIX
If you can't accomplish the sound of your desire, I would then suggest using the Drum Dial to get you within the tuning spectrum of your needs and fine tune afterward. Below is the site to purchase it if needed.
Drumdial Inc. featuring drum tuning, drum triggers, triggers, electronic drums, electronic drum triggers
I'm not advertising, I'm talking from experience within the drumming community of 50 years.
Happy Drumming to all.